Bargaining with God
When i go on a shopping excursion, I love hunting for great deals. What girl doesnt love the adventure of finding the best clothing or the coolest decorations for the best price? I think it's part of our DNA as females.No wonder it's easy at times for us females to approach God and try to bargain with Him. In our hearts, we know that He knows what's best for us, yet we tend to be concerned with what the whole "deal" looks like. Sometimes the fear of not knowing everything He has planned keeps us from giving our dreams to Him. We may not say these words, but we may be thinking them: God, Ill do this if You'll do this. I'll give you this if You'll give it back to me the way I want it. He's the Lord of the universe, yet sometimes we act as if we can manipulate Him!
It really all comes down to a matter of trust. God wants us to live fulfilled lives. He wants to shower us daily with His extravagant love. He is not withholding good things from us. He desires that we come to Him in obedience -- pure and simple. And if we do that, we will be free, and that's what He wants us to be. I can't think of a better deal anywhere.
The Old Testament wisdom books offer some great insight into this theme of accepting from God what He wants to give us rather than bargaining with Him. We may not always understand what God is up to in our lives, but we can be assured that He's all about what's good for us. (Eccl. 5:18-20) (Ps. 119:124-125)
Do you spend more time in prayer asking God for His guidance, attempting to bargain with Him, or simply coming to Him in obedience? Make a concerted effort in your prayer time today to leave the bargaining out, and willful obedience in.
~Rebecca St. James